Suicide.
Or according to some Trinis Soo....
SIDE.
Some people think that Talking about
suicide is a bad idea and can be interpreted as encouragement. Yeah. For some
people, talking about suicide is like talking about sex education, teenage
pregnancy or Colm Imbert.
They rather not.
But we need to Talk.
Not about Colm Imbert. About suicide.
Because factors like depression and
mental health issues are real.
And suicides can be prevented.
Growing up I thought someone had to be
crazy or stupid to kill themselves. I thought people who attempted suicide were
looking for attention. I thought only men killed themselves. Indian men. If an
African man did it there was only one explanation: he had Indian in him. I thought people who drank Gramoxone did
it because they had grass in their belly.
Then I grew up. And Life was suddenly
more challenging.
On two occasions I've thought about
suicide. Once in 2010. And once in... Kim, what year we get married again?
In Trinidad, suicide and attempted suicide are criminal offences.
So is murder. And naked children. And
washing cars in public. And smoking weed. But that isn't stopping anyone.
The
intentional killing of oneself is evidence of two things. personal breakdown
and the deterioration of the society. Suicide is more likely to occur during
periods of crisis. Because of this suicide is used as an indicator of the
mental health status of a population.
In
the Caribbean, Trinidad and Tobago has the third highest suicide rate. Guyana,
the land of chicken curry, is first on the list.
In 2018, when it came to suicide,
Trinidad ranked 36th highest nation in the world. 14.6 suicides for every
100,000 people.
A deteriorated society puts people at
risk of increased suicide. Pause for a second and consider Trinidad.
There's violence, divorce, bullying,
health problems, teenage pregnancy, inappropriate media reporting, the harmful
use of alcohol, financial problems, depression, horn, poor SEA results.
Between 2005 and 2012, approximately
727 people officially died by suicide. That's roughly 100 people every
year.
One research paper lists 667 victims
of suicide from 2013 to 2016. For every suicide, 20 attempts have been made.
Every year, at each regional health
authority in Trinidad and Tobago, there are 1,000 admissions related to
self-harm or suicide.
In Trinidad (and Tobago) there 5
regional health authorities. So that's 5,000 self-harm and suicide-related
admissions.
Suicide does not have one particular
cause.
And it doesn't affect one particular
race.
It's an individual thing.
There are warning signs you should
know. The warning signs fall into three categories: Physical, Conversational
and Behavioural such as:
Disinterest in appearance,
uncontrolled anger, frequent conversations about death and suicide,
self-harming, the desire for revenge, acting reckless or engaging in risky
activities – seemingly without thinking - feeling trapped, increased alcohol or
drug use, anxiety, agitation, insomnia.
If someone is talking about being
dead, or how much their own death would make people happy there's a high
probability that person is contemplating suicide.
Extreme moods swings.
If someone goes from depressed to
suddenly ok or happy that could be an indication that the person has found a
solution in suicide.
Suicide doesn't discriminate by age,
gender or geographic location.
In 2007, a global school survey
revealed that 21% of females and 14% of males had seriously considered
suicide.17% had a definite plan.
Of the 667 suicides from 2013 to 2016:
79% of the victims were male.
Based on the same research, Indians or
Indo-Trinidadians are more likely to commit suicide. They accounted for 65% of
victims. That doesn't mean that Afro-Trinidadians are safe. Afro-Trinidadians
are three more times likely to be killed in a homicide.
34 % of the deaths occurred in South
West Trinidad.
Let's talk about Gramoxone, or
according to some Trinis Gramaxone.
From 2013 to 2016, More than 70
percent of suicides were due to drinking pesticides or other poisons.
Globally the World Health Organisation
has talked about safer access to pesticides and weedicides like Gramoxone.
Safer access can reduce impulsive suicides.
Locally, experts have called for
stronger regulation or an outright ban. A 1997 study showed that of 105 deaths
almost 80 per cent of deaths were due to paraquat or Gramoxone.
Which makes sense because, In
Trinidad, buying poison it as easy as buying rope
In 2018, the question of banning Gramoxone
came up in Parliament.
The question is, though, if poisons
are banned would suicides decrease? Because in recent times suicide by hanging
and the use of firearms have increased. Certainly, banning the sale of rope
isn't feasible.
Media Houses also have an important
role when reporting suicide.
Because research links media coverage
of suicide and increases in suicidal behaviour. Copycat suicides are a real thing.
On
the Ministry of Health's website journalists can find 11 best practices for
responsible suicide reporting.
For example:
Describing details about the method or
location are a no-no.
So is including words, photographs or
videos that may be painful to loved ones.
Never say a method is quick, easy,
painless or certain to result in death.
Avoid referring to a person as
suicidal or mentally ill
Above all, end with a message of hope.
The
scary thing is that all the media houses in Trinidad and Tobago at one time or
another, are guilty of irresponsible reporting.
When
it comes to suicide, the answers do not lie exclusively with the government or
media houses.
You and I also have an important role.
To look out for one another.
To ask a question if you recognise
worrisome physical, conversational and behavioural signs in a loved one or a
co-worker or a stranger.
Ask.
And listen. Because listening saves lives.
Let the person contemplating suicide
talk.
Be patient.
Don't be judgmental.
Put down your phone.
Do
not argue with a person contemplating suicide. Avoid saying things like:
“You have so much to live for”;
“Look on the bright side”;
“Great is the PNM.”
If
you're having dark thoughts and feel all alone, services like Lifeline can
help. Lifeline is a confidential service that befriends the despairing and
suicidal. They listen 24 hours, every day. (Wow a service that listens 24/7. My
wife will love that.)
If
you need help, call 800-5588, 231--2824. 220 3636.
If
you don't have any money in your phone, that's okay.
The service is free.
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About Lifeline
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Lifeline's main aim is to be available
24 hours every day to people passing through a crisis and in imminent danger of
taking their own life.
This requires funding. Lifeline
earns no money and generally their work is the last and least funded because it
concentrates on perpetrators of violence.
If you're interested in becoming a volunteer or donating to Lifeline’s work, please visit their website at lifelinett.com.
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